I experienced The Flower of Solitude as a unique blend of drama, self-help guide, partial autobiography, and educational text exploring healing through aromatherapy and color therapy. The very title suggests that through our personal struggles—solitude—we grow, much like a flower that blossoms and transforms.

The author authentically, dynamically, and creatively illustrates relational dynamics, the development of self-awareness, psychological challenges, personal growth, and the complexities of connection and separation between characters. The writing style demonstrates a strong grasp of dramatic structure and gradually draws the reader into the life and self-discovery journey of the main protagonist through her relationship with the therapist, Imortella, all within a vividly depicted environment that strongly influences their encounters.

The narrative unfolds in an engaging way, frequently interspersed with elements of surprise that evoke various reactions and dialogues between the characters. Beyond the core relationship between the two women, the book is rich with insights into aromatherapy, color therapy, the customs of a small Dalmatian village, and the cultural openness of France. As the main character is an artist, her profession naturally invites exploration, questioning, growth, and living beyond familiar boundaries. This allows readers to simultaneously confront their own limitations and find motivation to step outside their comfort zone—an essential step toward growth and transformation.

The text is infused with a deep sense of humanity, genuine empathy, compassion for others, and an effort to understand their reality and perspective, regardless of one’s own beliefs or perceptions. Full credit goes to the author for her courage, depth, and holistic approach to herself, her environment, and her way of life.

Ultimately, The Flower of Solitude is a book about self-acceptance, allowing oneself to lean on another, embracing differences, and, finally, releasing personal expectations. As Fritz Perls, the founder of Gestalt therapy, emphasized: our dependencies make us slaves—especially when we depend on others for our self-worth. If we need constant validation, praise, or approval from others, we turn everyone into our judge.

In that spirit, The Flower of Solitude is not only about the meeting of two women but also about their parting, which reflects the profound personal growth they both experience through their relationship. I warmly recommend reading The Flower of Solitude—a moving, motivating, intriguing, and thoroughly enjoyable book, rich in captivating storytelling and vivid detail.

Tina Panžić, M.A. Psychology, Psychotherapist